Kiss and Make Up

by Stephanie Dempsey

Making up is hard to do ... unless you pay special attention to your lover's horoscope sign! The next time you find yourself in the dog house, consider the following tips. Pretty soon, you'll be back in your beloved's arms, rather than scratching at the back door for scraps!

Aries (March 21 to April 19)

Don't beat around the bush with forthright Aries. Ask for their forgiveness, admit your wrongdoing, and promise to never commit the same mistake again. Stick to your word, because Aries has no tolerance for broken promises. Don't wait for a "good time" to apologize, because the Ram will jump right back into the dating pool. A public apology may be in order if you've wounded this lover's ego.

Taurus (April 20 to May 20)

Taurus is the most stubborn sign in the zodiac. If the two of you have had a fight, you need to admit that your lover was right in the first place. Until you do, your conversations will remain stalled. It's also good to craft a plan that will help you deal with future conflicts in a constructive, healthy way. That way, you will ease the fears of your security-conscious lover.

Gemini (May 21 to June 20)

Send a funny note of apology. Nothing breaks down Gemini's reserve like humor. If you've made a serious error, write a heartfelt letter asking for your lover's forgiveness and send it overnight express. This sign admires swift, decisive action, and won't wait by the phone for your call. If you really want to smooth things over with this lover, you've got to communicate. Otherwise, Gemini will sense you are holding something back.

Cancer (June 21 to July 22)

Making up with Cancer requires patience, delicacy, and tact. The Crab's feelings are easily bruised. Don't make light of your mistakes, and never tease them about theirs. Telling this sign that you can't live without their love will usually do the trick. If Cancer still pouts after your apology, fix a home-cooked meal and fuss over their welfare. Make more time for this lover, and listen attentively to their concerns.

Leo (July 23 to Aug. 22)

Flattery will get you everywhere with Leo. Apologize profusely for your misdeeds, and declare that you don't deserve their love. Showering this sign with gourmet chocolates and hothouse flowers can also do this trick. Lions love lavish tributes. Make a greater effort to be worthy of their love by dressing well. When Leo sees that you're trying hard to earn their affection, they'll let you back into their life.

Virgo (Aug. 23 to Sept. 22)

Clean up your language. Virgo can't stand swears and curses. Bone up on your etiquette. Knowing the proper thing to do will melt the Virgin's reserve. Be on time, and tidy up your home. This sign will be far more likely to accept your apology if you clean up your act. If you want to make a peace offering, choose a good book. Virgo doesn't like emotional appeals; they prefer dealing with problems on a logical front.