As a peaceful Libra ruled by Venus, planet of love and beauty, you have a fair and friendly way of getting along with everyone. Some of your best matches are fellow Air signs -- Gemini and Aquarius -- who can happily drift alongside you and adapt to your ever-changing whims!
You Libras are gracious and easily project your individuality through cooperation with other people. Your personality tends to attract people into your life who can become a mirror to you, helping you gain elusive self-awareness. You carry a strong sense of justice in all your actions as you uphold the equality in all your relationships.
Aries is your astrological opposite. Aries are less prone to join groups and have less need for harmony in relationships. They are rugged individuals who prefer to work alone, as they can get impatient when they have to work with others. Therefore, you'll have to adjust to the extreme differences in character between you and your Aries lover. If, however, the Moon or Mars is in a fire sign in your chart, the differences won't seem so vast and your chances for compatibility are greatly improved.
If this union does occur, you will have to give your Aries partner a lot of latitude and room enough for independent action. Together, you'll need to find a middle ground that balances the Aries self-interests with your need for mutual sharing.
This relationship can work, but don't expect it to be easy. It will be like riding a see-saw as you go back and forth between the two poles of your individual styles.
You will enjoy the down-to-earth joy of the Taurus. Both of you love the beauty of nature, art, music, and design, but your Taurus lover might be more sensual than you. You tend toward an aesthetic and aloof personality coupled with a need for balance, especially in the area of relationships.
You strive toward cooperation, whereas your bull-headed partner can find it difficult to compromise for the sake of peace. Their stubbornness can be quite frustrating to you, for you may feel that you're always the one who gives in. If, however, the Moon in your chart is in Taurus, Leo, Scorpio or Aquarius, you can become a formidable opponent in negotiations with your immovable Taurus partner. He or she can offer you a practical approach to life that is simpler and more innocent than you have alone.
Since both of you have Venus as your key or ruling planet, pleasure rules your roost -- though it may be more mental for you and physical for your mate. Ultimately, if the two of you have common values that match, you can be happy together, for neither of you lives outside the perimeters of your standards and morals.
This relationship requires individual adjustment, but you'll have many a romantic night dreaming about all the beautiful things you can do together.
You can merge with your Gemini into a happy couple -- enjoying the beautiful and refined aspects of life. You may struggle to remain focused and grounded together, for as two air signs, you tend toward living in an idealistic world of ideas and dreams that can fail to produce results and practical success in the real world.
If either of you have the Moon, Mercury, Venus or Mars in earth signs, you will be better equipped to deal with the day-to-day responsibilities of living.
Without other planets in earth signs, yours is a mental relationship, so communication is of key importance to both of you. Your Gemini lover will stimulate your creativity, inspiring you to greater heights of expression. You, on the other hand, will help your clever Gemini to incorporate an artistic grace in what they say or write. Together, you are dreamers and schemers, and will love to delve into the infinite possibilities that lay before you.
One romantic aspect of this union may include writing poems, letters or emails to each another and creating lovely things of beauty to give each other as gifts. You may have found yourself a lifelong playmate, lover and friend, and together you will keep each other young at heart.
You have high ideals in your relationships and seek to understand your partner as a means to broaden your own self-reflection and identity. Therefore, you may assume a mental stance in a relationship, which is not problematic unless you are with a water sign, such as Cancer. Your Cancer lover is a deeply emotional and highly sensitive person who may be overwhelmed and even perplexed by your detached style.
Your Crab prefers to feel their way through a situation, nourishing and protecting those they love with a giving and open heart. No question about it: you appreciate this devotion. On the other hand, you may feel burdened, even claustrophobic, by the always present and sometimes unspoken needs of insecure Cancer lover, unless the Moon or Venus in your chart is in a water sign (Cancer, Scorpio or Pisces).
Your partner is addicted to the comfort of feeling that comes through mutual sharing and commitment. Meanwhile, you want to understand and think about the prospect of mutual union, yet in the end, the actual commitment and steadfast concentration may waver. Needless to say, this will irritate your mate.
If you can work out this difference of character, you should be able to love each other with care and respect as you create a life together.
You are not normally too judgmental, but your refined sense of beauty will either adore Leos or find them totally exasperating.
If you are in a relationship with a Lion, you probably fell on the side of adoration. This is perfect, for your Leo mate needs outward displays of love and affection.
Your Lion can bring new friends and social experiences to you, for Leo is generally optimistic and outgoing. And you do enjoy the social events and opportunities to meet new and interesting people. You do, however, have particular tastes that can, at times, seem picky ... especially to your Leo partner, who is more concerned with good fun and cheer than discriminating against being in a wrong social circle. But as long as your partner receives a fair share of attention and recognition, things will remain at peace.
One problem is that you can feel disdain for showy exploitation, preferring the more astute and intellectual company of friends. This can be even more problematic if your Venus is in Virgo or Scorpio.
You'll have to open your thinking to allow your partner's friends to enter your life. You will be happier in this fun-loving relationship if you don't try to prune away your Leo's grandiose social life. Give your mate enough room to find amusement and he or she will open your heart in a way that you never imagined possible.
You can have a difficult time making decisions because of your unique ability to see both sides of most situations. Accordingly, you make great mediators. But, unlike the other zodiac signs, you need a constant flow of input from others around you in order to know yourself or others fully.
You move back and forth like a see-saw, from idea to idea, until you are externally motivated or forced to make a final decision. This trait will be difficult for Virgos, who are exact and finite about details and life agendas. In fact, you can make them quite crazy. You do enjoy each other's refined individual presentation and probably feel at home when you are around each other. In a daily routine, however, you'll find yourself frustrated by your mate's impatience and criticism toward your changing mind.
You two make good classmates and can help each other along a course of common study. As romantic partners, however, you're going to need help from compatible placements of your Moon, Venus and Mars.
Even with help from the romantic planets, you'll still need to make solid decisions and stick to agreed-upon commitments for this relationship to last.
Sometimes a relationship with someone of your own sign is a perfectly wonderful thing. You Librans, however, have an innate willingness to lose yourself into your partner and do what is needed to make a perfect relationship. Put two of you together, and you may flounder about, for without the presence of a grounding influence, this may be a pie-in-the-sky union without the means to bring it into full fruition.
Both of you are highly idealistic and artistic. Sure, you can build castles in the sky, but the question remains -- can you bring it to earth? When you are with another Libra, the placement of the other planets in each of your charts will determine whether you are mutually compatible. In particular, you'll need good aspects between the Moon, Venus and Mars. If these are present, this relationship can be just what the love doctor ordered for you.
Regardless of these other planets, you can achieve great success with a Libra lover if you each practice sticking to commitments, following through, and making precise and clear decisions that benefit the two of you as well as others. Together, you can enjoy creating music, art and clothing and may enjoy sharing poetry. A romantic involvement could include writing love letters and sharing intimate thoughts.
This can be a very sweet and lovely union, but again, the question arises-can you two stay centered enough to produce the stability needed for the long haul?
You adore elegant objects that represent fine taste and a sense of beauty. You have the ability to transform your environment into a haven of peace, relaxation, and harmony. Scorpio's resourceful and magnetic personality would just love to bask in the sheer elegance of your domain. Your Scorpio lover may enjoy the opportunity to indulge you with the physical pleasures and emotional passions of life while you adorn your Scorpio with appreciation and adoration.
The problem, however, is that you may find your Scorpio partner way more intense than you think anyone should ever need to be. You may be attracted by the Scorpio's charisma and want to understand the mysteries behind the veil, but as you open the curtain, you may not like what you see.
If the Moon in your chart is in a water sign (Cancer, Scorpio or Pisces), you'll be better equipped to react to the powerful Scorpion's emotions, but if your Moon is in an air sign (Gemini, Libra or Aquarius), you'd better run for the hills while you still have a chance.
You are happiest when everything in your environment is in harmony. Your Scorpio lover is happiest when passions are running high and the feelings are mutual. If you are willing to take a journey into the shadowy realms of emotions, where things aren't always as pleasant as you'd like, you just may find more beauty and magic than you though possible.
You are motivated by beauty and pleasure. You can enjoy excursions and outdoor activities that enable you to appreciate nature. You have a keen eye for environmental programs, community gardens, and interactive nature hikes and walks.
Actually, you Librans make good city planners or designers who seek to bridge the harmony of the aesthetics of nature with urban life. All this bodes well for a relationship with visionary Sagittarius, who is eager to learn, travel, and trek fields for new opportunities.
Your Sagittarius partner will surely bring the bigger picture into your life, whether it is from the need to be outdoors or the need to think about things in a philosophical and global manner. Together, you blend your high ideals of a visionary world, crafted with the finer touches of intelligence and grace.
One problem that may arise comes from your need for harmony, whereas your Sagittarius lover will forego the abstract pleasure of beauty for the next adventure. Unless your Moon or Mars is in a fire sign, you may not always be ready to plunge into the proposed journey just because he or she has picked a destination.
On a smaller scale, it is very possible that you can create little worlds of diverse possibilities right in your own backyard. With a bit of practical assertiveness on your part and an action plan between the two of you, a wide range of options is available for a progressive and harmonious life together.
You are attracted to all things beautiful, and although your Capricorn lover may choose practicality over beauty, there is still common ground between you.
Your relationship with a Capricorn can produce an environmental blend of your loveliness and his or her austerity. Your partner will be challenged by your "out-of-this-world" dreamy style, for the goal-oriented Goat is relentless about the need to focus on the responsibilities of daily life.
It's not that you are lazy, but you're just not used to putting your nose to the grindstone like the disciplined Capricorn, and you may feel rather burdened by the harsh expectations of your partner. If, however, Venus is in Virgo or Scorpio in your chart, you might be more understanding of this practical way of living.
You need time to dream of the fantasy world that you will build in the future. Your Capricorn partner needs to stick to the fundamental nuts and bolts, and needs to take care of business in the present.
If the two of you choose to build your paradise on earth together, you'll need to buckle down to the daily routine of practical work while your mate opens his or her imagination to the importance of beauty in your lives.
You are concerned with relationships in general and naturally take on the role of mediator. You are motivated in this direction because you seek harmony in all aspects of life, including interpersonal relationships.
You find yourself a fine companion in the eccentric Aquarius, for they are also concerned with the intellectual quality of relationships. There is, however, a difference. Your Aquarius friend is less interested in human romantic relationships than in the relationship between abstract ideas, inventions and humanity. Theirs is not a warm and fuzzy love, but a powerful idea that can create an unbreakable bond.
Your Aquarius lover inspires originality in your aesthetic tastes-thereby opening paths of new and progressive art and expression for you. On the other hand, you can help polish and refine the radical opinions and blunt assertions of your Aquarius partner. You bring beauty and grace to the dramatic edge of Aquarius. There is an inherent genius between you two air signs, creating a peculiar mixture of originality, grace and intelligence.
If you choose to have children together, your offspring may carry a wonderful blend of these potentials. As parents, your will see to it that your children have charm and good manner, yet maintain their individuality. Since both signs tend to be primarily mental rather than physical, the Moon, Mercury or Mars in earth or fire signs in your individual chart would help you deal with the practical world.
Whatever compatibility is added by other planets in your charts, this is a wonderful pair where the two of you can find just the right balance between freedom and companionship.
You love to learn about life and yourself through the perception of the people around you. This is one reason why you are a relationship-oriented person. There is, however, an aloof quality about your approach to people that can dominate your personality if you become too absorbed in indulging your self-awareness.
When in a relationship with the compassionate and universally minded Pisces, you may find an avenue of selflessness that you've not previously explored. Pisces is not so interested in the evolution of the self as much as the continual evolution of the human race.
On the surface this sounds like you have something in common, but more often than not, you two will need other indicators in your charts to create compatibility. If the Moon or Venus in your chart is in a water sign, then the emotional underpinning of your Pisces lover won't seem so mysterious and difficult to understand.
If the two of you are to prosper as a pair, you'll need to find an acceptable balance between working on achieving harmony in your own relationship and your humanistic concerns for the planet.
Your innate grace and social skills, coupled with your lover's emotionally sensitive nature, can bring about a peaceful resolution to any dissonance you may meet along the path of your relationship.
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